I know the dress is super important and I also think it's all about the shoes! You can tell so much about the bride by looking at her shoes. It's really amazing, some of the choices i've seen have been as drastic as ruby red shoes, combat boots, flip flops, and ....oh yes, Louboutins! I love shoes and what girls doesn't. For me, the higher the heal, the better. But of course I can't wear those high heals to work, I will just admire them on the brides.